We can provide legal advice on the Children`s Arrangements Convention. As a general rule, family judges are happy to ensure that both parents are involved in their children`s lives. Show the court that you agree with this ideal and don`t try to spend your child against your ex. This is often the first step for your ex to follow the on-call instructions. Your lawyer may write a letter that informs the other parent that they must obey the court order or that they are willing to expect heavy legal penalties. Sometimes that`s all it takes to wake up a parent and get them to follow the custody order. If you encounter difficulties with a children`s order of arrangement, including minor or major offenses, it is advisable to keep a journal on them. This means that you have a clear idea of the difficulties you have faced.